Bagaimana untuk lupakan orang yang pernah sangat kita sayang?

Before ni aku sendiri slalu tercari2 entry tentang mcm mane utk kite lupe kn ex kite... But aku rase impak nye utk sume org mmg x same.. Its more depends on ourself... Tp maybe aku blh share kan ape yg aku lakukan based on my true experience.....

• 1st, aku xpernah pon pulang kan pape yg ex aku penah bagi.. for what??? even brg 2 dari dia, tapi its mine... da jadik hak aku.... Knp suke sgt nk sakit kn kepale n sakit kan hati sendiri nk pikir mcm ne care nye utk kite pulangkn? so, what i do? aku bagi sume brg2 2 kn adik2 aku or member2 aku.. actually, kite banyak sgt pikir pasal hati n prasaan dia.. tp klu dia buat kite mcm sampah, ape tujuan kite nak hormati dia? so throw him out of ur mind!! Love urself first...

• Slain 2, kite xpyh la pakse sgt otak kite nk lupekn dia... makin kite pakse, makin kite ingat, makin tertekan, n lastly what u want 2 do? commit suicide? hurmmmm... xtually 4 me, juz live our life... klu dia bahagia kt sane, knp kite perlu seksa diri sendiri?? who cares??? 

• But, kadang2 tipu la klu kite kate kite x kesah langsung xde dia... aku pon manusia, slalu jgk hrp yg dia akn balik pade aku.. but, its a life..... not something yg kite boleh control... if u olz ade peluang utk bwk dia kembali, try will all ur heart n never give up... but, klu da xde harapan, juz stop it... it'll only hurt u a lot later....

• Maybe sometimes kite blh bz kan diri kite klu takut rase sunyi sbb dia xde... do what eva u want to do for ur life... what i do? of coz i go to shopping!! heeeee~~ skali skale xsalah nk manje kn diri sendiri kn.. asyik manje kn org lain jer... plus go to hair salon or do ur facial treatment... it'll build up ur confident.. dia rugi kerana tinggalkan kamu... Ngeeee~~~

• Go holiday with ur BFF... Pergi mane2 yg kamu mahu... Ajak kawan2 kamu, n for sure yg terbaik... Rehatkan fikiran anda.. bahagia kan diri anda sendiri... Buat ape pon yg anda mahu.. then only u'll know, u still can breath without him/her.... u still can be happy.... Its ur only life anyway.....

• N for last... Jgn slalu sgt tipu hati.. Jgn kate kite mampu hidup tanpa psgn.. Coz kite mmg dijadi kan hidup berpasangan... xsalah bukak hati utk org lain kot... In my case, after 4 years suffering to erase him in my memory, 1 week before his wedding, Tuhan anta someone to bright up my day.. Even its not yet something yg kite boleh panggil 'cinta', tapi its still something yg buat aku rase bahagia... 

Actually, bnyk lagi care yg kite blh buat utk lupekan insan2 yg pernah melukakn hati kite... juz close ur eyes and listen 2 ur heart... N juz jgn hancur kn diri utk org yg da xsyg kn kite.... 

In my case, my Pakcik Lollipop hadir tepat pade mase nye... Until now, even dia xpernah confess yg dia syg aku, its not mean that i can give up.. aku akan buat dia syg kt aku mcm yg aku syg kat dia.. its for sure.... Amin...